Relationships
and Sex - an Arcturian
perspective.
Dear
readers, welcome to our message that is
intended to bring hope and encouragement
as well as information into everyone's
increasingly deepening soul
journey.
All is
proceeding according to plan. Never fear
that the Divine plan can be manipulated
or stopped by those who wish to do so
for there is only One Power and that
power is not effected by three
dimensional conditioned
activities.
These are
times of tremendous change in which much
that the world is accustomed to will not
return in its previous form. Those
waiting for everything to once again be
exactly as it was will be disappointed.
As the collective spiritually evolves
through the presence of increasingly
more high frequency Light on earth,
material expressions in all facets of
life will begin to reflect this.
The true
essence of everything you see as
material is in fact spiritual, but the
spiritual reality is seen in the dense
energy of the third dimension as
material. How it is interpreted depends
upon the personal and collective
consciousness doing the interpreting
which at this time is quickly
changing.
Ideas,
inventions, and practices in law,
medicine, and religion etc. as you have
come to know them are based in beliefs
of duality and separation. The
foundation of many of these things will
begin to crumble as people see them from
new and higher levels. However, since
the underlying idea of them is
spiritual, their true essence remains
intact, only their old form changes. New
and higher forms that reflect earth's
evolving spiritual awareness will soon
begin to manifest.
Higher
forms of many ideas were given to earth
long ago, but have been held back and
kept secret from the majority by those
who would keep mankind in bondage to
control. As ideas like free energy
become universally known, life for all
will be easier.
We wish to
once again speak about love for even
though we have often spoken about the
absolute truth of love being the
interconnecting energy between
individuals within the ONE, we have not
spoken of love as it is most commonly
interpreted in the third dimension. Many
struggle with how to translate the
reality of love into daily life
especially with regard to relationships.
There are
three hurtles that all meet on their
journey out of three dimensional state
of consciousness. They are; 1.
Relationships, 2. Money, 3. Power
These
three facets of life on earth are
solidly ingrained in the consciousness
of the majority through having lived
many lifetimes in which they represented
the power that ruled over everyone's
life and their ability to make personal
choices.
Romantic
love is an area that continues to
confuse many. Sexual attraction to a
stranger or to someone who rejects you,
the inability to let go of old
relationships, and the need to
continually seek for a partner all serve
to create confusion and psychological
pain. The bottom line of which is the
belief that one cannot be happy without
a partner.
Romance in
its three dimensional sense is an
concept that arose out of the belief in
separation. It has been colored and
promoted by society as being a goal
necessary for happiness. You have been
taught that you are half of a couple and
that until you find your other half,
your soul mate, the perfect partner, you
will be unhappy and incomplete.
Books,
film, TV shows, retail, and media in
general continue to promote the idea
that once a person finds "Mr or Mrs.
Right" they will finally feel whole and
complete. The world in general continues
to buy into these concepts, spending a
great deal of time searching, seeking,
and game playing unaware that what they
seek is already present within
them
Needing to
find one's "other half" in reality is a
spiritual truth but not in the three
dimensional sense. Everyone has a
perfect "other half" but it lies within.
Women already possess the masculine they
seek just as men already possess the
feminine that they seek but both seek it
outside of themselves.
Everyone
is already whole and compete by virtue
of their oneness with Source. If a
person chooses to share their wholeness
with another that is their free will
choice, but it is never a need.
Believing
that one is half of a couple creates a
sense of loneliness that prompts many to
spend time and effort searching on the
computer or phone, frequenting social
places, joining groups, and doing
activities in the hope of finding the
one special person who will make them
feel whole and complete according to
their personal concepts of happiness.
Even when
Mr. or Mrs. Right is found, there
remains that sense of loneliness because
the empty spot within is the Soul's
yearning to be recognized and integrated
into a state of consciousness that knows
it is Source.
Many of
you have already released these old
concepts and have come into your
personal power. Those who have not must
release false ideas about relationship
if they are to evolve into a
consciousness of spiritual wholeness and
completeness that will then manifest
outwardly as that which represents
wholeness and completeness to
them.
Completeness
and wholeness for one may mean remaining
single but for another wholeness and
completeness may mean partnership. If so
their consciousness will draw to them
(alignment) the right partner without a
lot of manipulation, thought, and
concern. Consciousness is always
expressing itself. What do I hold in my
consciousness?
Those
unaware of who and what they really are
will continue seeking completeness from
outside of themselves through three
dimensional tools but will never find it
even when their goals are attained
because three dimensional concepts are
temporary having nothing but belief to
support them. Divine wholeness and
completeness is infinite, forever, and
never changes or ceases.
The belief
and promotion of sexual attraction as
being love has created more heartbreak
among the majority than can be counted.
It also sells tickets, promotes films,
and keeps a lot of businesses going but
the world is ready to move beyond these
narrow concepts.
When sex
becomes simply a route for self pleasure
without regard for the other person it
becomes a three dimensional activity
devoid of love and can cause a person to
become stuck and addicted to old energy
patterns. It also results in energetic
cords being created between those
involved.
Sex,
attraction, and the desire to be with
another are facets of love but can
simply be energetic alignment. There
could be a past life connection, or
perhaps one person aligns with another's
concept of the perfect partner. Perhaps
the other (stranger or friend) holds
similar beliefs (alignment) as you.
Energetic alignment is not love although
it can lead to love and is necessary for
a solid partnership.
Sexual
encounters are often considered to be
simply a pleasant release for those
involved. However as with all things, it
has a deeper reality. Its true spiritual
essence is the joining of the masculine
and feminine energies into a powerful
ONEness from which a new and evolved
consciousness is born.
Those who
know the spiritual truth about
themselves and their partner bring love
and respect to their sexual relationship
allowing it to become a spiritual
experience rather than just a physical
release. Relationships both homosexual
and heterosexual entered into at this
level of awareness have the potential to
lift both into higher awareness. This
truth was studied and taught in many of
the ancient sacred schools of learning.
Religions
have taught that sex is bad and should
avoided under pain of sin and damnation
until a commitment is made and then it
is only for the purpose of creating
children. These false and limiting
concepts have permeated collective
thinking and made natural, healthy, and
pleasurable human sexuality into a
source of shame, guilt, and fear.
As
individuals spiritually evolve, their
concepts of romance also evolve. Many
relationships that came about through
three dimensional concepts of romance
and love are either beginning to
dissolve or are having problems, leaving
both partners wondering what happened to
a once happy relationship.
The choice
to stay or leave a relationship must be
a personal choice, one made from a level
of love that and considers the good of
all involved. However this never means
sacrificing individuality or
surrendering personal power to another
simply to maintain something that no
longer exists or to satisfy the desires
and wants of some other person, group,
family, or friend. Always trust your
intuition in these matters.
Relationships
of all kinds are and will continue to
change because the collective
consciousness is shifting into new and
higher levels. The inner is always
reflected in the outer which means that
when one partner spiritually shifts to a
new level and the other does not, the
energetic alignment they started with no
longer exists in its previous
form.
This does
not always mean that a relationship must
end. If harmony and love are present
even when beliefs differ it often means
that the alignment has remained intact.
Often one of the partners has done the
work in a previous lifetime and there is
no need to be actively engaged in it
now.
True
relationships are two individuals both
aware of their innate completeness,
standing together by choice not need,
looking in the same direction.
Partnership
with a certain person is often part of a
person's pre-birth plan as being
necessary for the completion of some
unfinished business from another
lifetime. This is why it frequently
happens that one or both partners
question why they came together in the
first place.
Once a
person attains a consciousness of their
Divine Completeness, partnerships become
less desirable and sought after because
the person no longer feels the intense
desire or need for partnership. They
feel complete.
Send light
to the world, to those suffering, and to
all so called "enemies". Visualize light
within everyone you see or think about.
For some you may see just a pin point of
light and for others a large brightness
but always remember that all hold Divine
Light even if it is hidden behind
shadows of false concepts and beliefs.
This is why you came to earth at this
time
Light
always extinguishes shadows because
shadows have no substance. Shadows are
simply the absence of light, appearances
formed of duality and separation having
no Divine energy of their own to sustain
and maintain them.
The secret
of personal and global ascension is to
stop feeding illusions and allow Reality
manifest.